*The small minded person finds every opportunity to be too big of a challenge.
*No one likes to be criticized. The wise person criticizes their ow self, and takes themselves to task for their own failings and lack of awareness, so other don’t feel the need to do so.
Grown up, and that is a terribly hard thing to do. It is much easier to skip it, and go from one childhood to another.
F. Scott Fitzgerald