*Miracles happen all around you constantly, yet you shrug them off as coincidence or happenstance. Your butt has been saved more than once by one which you foolishly ascribed to talent or luck. It was neither.
*Much misfortune is solely self-inflicted and thus can only be cured by the one suffering from it.
If a friend is in trouble, don’t annoy them by asking if there’s anything you can do. Think up something appropriate and do it.